I could write a long post about how difficult the beginning of 2009 has already been for us, but I’ll let The Wife handle that. But it’s safe to safe that the last day of 2008 and the first day of 2009 truely sucked.
So two months ago I broke down and created a Facebook account. Believe it or not, I’m actually rather protective of my online privacy. I know working on two blogs, regular appearances on one podcasts while producing and hosting a second, plus two Flikr streams doesn’t seem appear like I keep a lot of privacy online… But leave me with my delusion ok?
Actually to try and protect some of my privacy, my profile isn’t hanging out there for all the world to see and much of it is hidden for the enjoyment of friends only. Given how little I put in my profile it amazes me how much some people are willing to put in their profile, especially considering the poor record that Facebook has when it comes to privacy issues - anybody remember Beacon? If anybody who’s a friend of me in Facebook wants my phone number or e-mail address they can ask me for it. I’m just not keen on leaving it hanging out there for the world to see.
But the real dilemma I have with Facebook is regarding friends. There’s A LOT of people on Facebook that I know - but just because I know them does that mean I want to friend them? I don’t consider my Facebook account to be a vanity page, but rather as a way for me to keep in touch with past and current friends. I know some folks who accept every friend request they get, but I don’t. I’ve received a few that I have declined because I think Facebook recommended them even though I have no idea who they are. But what about the folks I went to high school with? There are a few folks that I hung out with that I sought out on Facebook and a few others who managed to find me. But now there are folks who I never hung out with in high school who are trying to friend me up… Most if not all of them were in the “popular” crowd, and few if any of them would even give me the time of day when we were in school yet now they’re coming to me to be my friend in Facebook. Do I graciously accept their requests which make me look more popular, even though if it was 17 years ago and I was requesting to be their friend they’d probably say no? Or do I ignore them since I didn’t get along with them back then and don’t really have much interest in them now. Of course for a few of them, if I accept their request I get the opportunity to flaunt that unlike them I didn’t grow up to be an ignorant townie living in a run down single wide whose biggest aspiration is to some day move into a new double wide…
My favorite are the two requests that I haven’t answered yet. I’m probably going to decline them, mainly because I don’t remember who they are. I think I recognize the names, but I’ll be damned if I remember what they look like.